The definition of charming is someone who is pleasant or attractive.
To get what you want, you must be able to charm someone and make them like you.
For instance, job interview, the more you get them to like you, the more likely you will get the job.
The incredible life insight that I’ve learned over time is that most of the world is based on how much someone likes you and not so much on how qualified you are.
Being charming in today’s world isn’t about being a nice guy because you are not giving away any of your power as a man.
TIP #1: “The power of you name”
This is one of the easiest and most effective ways to turn on the charm is to remeber somebody’s name.
There is nothing sweeter than the sound of one’s own name.
Another trick is as just powerful as remembering and recalling someone’s name is remembering their favorite coffee drink or if you work in the restaurant, their favorite meal or dessert at its core, calling someone’s name works so well because it fullfills the basic human need to fell important.
An easy memory trick that you can use to remember anyone’s name is to immediately link their name to a specific image in your head after you hear it.
TIPS #2: “EGO PLAY”
All humans are naturally selfish creatures, there are times when we genuinely care about others but for the most part, our brains are hard-wired to care almost exclusively about ourselves and for our own well-being every human being on the planet has an ego and some have much much larger ego than others but even those who have very small egos still want to talk about themselves and their achievements after you meet someone.
One of easiest ways to instantly seem more charming is use a compliment to get the person to talk about themselves.
Image you just meet Joe and you know he is very good in video games, all that you have to do is to tell Joe that you’ve heard that he’s good with videogames and get him to talk about himself, the initial compliment strokes Joe’s Ego and it also sets up the conversation to allow Joe to further stroke his ego by talking about his videogame skills.
This trick works well, because it plays on the basic human need to feel important by stroking someone’s ego in these two major ways and showing genuine interest, you’ll instantly become more charming around others.
TIPS #3: “Keep it short”
If you look at James Bond, or similar charming characters in Hollywood movies and really pay attention, you’ll see that whenever they talk they always keep things short, light, fun, and interesting.
A huge mistake that a lot of people make is going into too much detail about whatever it is that they’re talking about fortunately there is really neat trick that you can use to do this.
The next time you are about to tell a huge story or going into too much detail, all you have to do is to condense everything into one sentence.
The most charming guy always keep things short during a conversation
TIPS #4: “It’s all about the energy”
What is unseen is more real than what is seen.
The word VIBE is to describe a person’s energy and your own energy is infectious
To instantly become more charming, you need to make sure that you’re putting out the right energy and your energy is basically your body language, voice tone and how you behave around people.
To put out the right energy, you should be humble and confident and positive but not too positive.
Always keep things light and playful.
Being charm in its core is how good you can make people feel when they are around you, oddly enough, this is also the most effective way to build attraction with girls, it also helps to stay a bit mysterious because it makes you seem exciting and makes people want to be around even more.
With the help of these simple psychological tricks you can instantly turn the charm on anyone but like everything in life, charm is a skill that takes time and procaticed the development, so start spending a little bit of time every single day, developing your own unique charm and you’ll gain access to many more opportunities in life that are only available to charming people and with that said until next time.
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